Queens Businesses Need People Skills, Not Just Technical Skills

Matt King — Fri, 23 Oct 2026 23:00:30 +0000

Morning chai with my South Asian English students. A train to Fifth Ave for a leadership workshop with medical students from China. A chat with my Colombian neighbor who remembers the good old days.

Diversity is so normal in Queens, NYC that we sometimes forget how unique it is. For New York City businesses, it’s both an incredible advantage and a real challenge, because diversity doesn’t automatically create collaboration. We need people skills to work across differences and build strong, diverse teams.

Technical Skills Aren’t Enough

The businesses that thrive here aren’t simply the ones with the most talent. They are the ones that turn individual perspectives and experiences into collective strength. Leaders naturally focus on strategy, finance, and technical expertise, but can miss the foundation these must be built on: a healthy team.

Picture a bank branch in Jackson Heights, NY. The loan officer is quick and direct. The operations manager wants every detail confirmed twice. The teller speaks four languages but hesitates to flag a mistake to the branch manager. Nobody is bad at their job, yet customers wait longer, small errors repeat, and the team quietly decides “that person is difficult.” This isn’t a technical skills gap; it’s a communication and trust gap.

Start with Communication Styles: The DISC Model

A practical first step is helping people understand how different colleagues communicate. The DISC Assessment, a behavioral model often called “the universal language of behavior,” describes four styles: Dominance, Influence, Steadiness, and Conscientiousness. Some people are direct and fast-paced. Others want to ask questions and work through details. Some focus on relationships, others on accuracy and structure.

None of these approaches are wrong. But without understanding, frustration builds. “Why are you making this so complicated?” “Why won’t you just listen?” Often what looks like a people problem is really a communication difference.

DISC offers a better question: “What does this person need from me?” The goal isn’t for everyone to communicate the same way. It’s to expand our own style to work effectively with a variety of people. Style isn’t culture, but a shared language for style gives teams a way to start talking about real differences without blame.

Build Trust and Psychological Safety

Communication skills alone aren’t enough. Teams also need trust: the freedom to ask questions, acknowledge mistakes, raise concerns, and challenge ideas. Misunderstandings are inevitable. The real question is whether your team has the skills to work through them.

Trust begins when team members feel psychologically safe enough to share honestly and engage with one another. One simple place to start is to have each person share how they work best. A short exercise, paired with DISC, on what motivates or stresses each person can turn hidden assumptions into conversations that build trust.

Learn by Doing: Interactive Team Building

I’ll say it upfront: I don’t thrive in long sessions or heavy theory. I learn best by engaging, by collaborating with a team, and applying ideas in real time.

You can talk about communication and trust all day, but eventually your team needs to apply it with their colleagues. Teamwork isn’t something you grasp from a distance; it’s something you build together.

Maybe that’s one of the things Queens teaches best. Our differences don’t have to divide us. They can make us stronger when we learn to understand each other. The same is true at work.

At Team Verve, I facilitate interactive team-building and leadership workshops for businesses in Queens and across New York City, that help your team master people skills while driving performance. Technical skills help us do our jobs. People skills help us do them together.

Is your team ready to strengthen communication, build trust, and turn diversity into a competitive advantage?

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From the Himalayas to NYC: Team, Trust, and Vulnerability

Matt King — Fri, 20 Mar 2026 20:23:40 +0000

My love for teams was born high in the Himalayan mountains. I was young, naïve, and full of energy—running hard and stretching boundaries.

Alongside learning to hike jungles and peaks, I began to overcome my own insecurities. I learned to risk trust and practice vulnerability while blazing trails and surviving on rations. In these intense physical conditions, my own glaring weaknesses quickly became obvious, and I realized that no matter how determined I was, I wouldn’t succeed alone. I needed a team.

Later, as I moved into a leadership role, I discovered the challenges of teams went far beyond the mountain trails. Communication could quickly break down. People’s motivations and expectations could be worlds apart. Trust and vulnerability—the very things that make teams thrive— took hard and personal work to build.

Life Has a Lot of Teams!

Over the next few years, life gave me a wide variety of teams: a family business, a pioneer-spirited NGO, a get-it-done startup, an established service company, an educational program, multiple church and nonprofit teams, and my own growing marriage-and-family team! Phew!

As I navigated these teams, I increasingly saw the need for skills – team skills. I observed that whether in business, marriage, or family, teams have the power to accomplish incredible things—or quickly fall into dysfunction. Simultaneously, teams are as different as the people in them, and navigating those differences can be both profoundly rewarding and incredibly challenging.

When Teams Start to Fray

Quite a few years ago, my own team was stressed, distrustful, and inching dangerously close to burnout. Our organizational health was declining—even though we were still accomplishing a lot. I found myself turning cynical and discouraged. It began to feel heavy just showing up.

Thankfully, our team—and our brave leader (can we give a shout-out to courageous leaders?)—recognized the need for change. We invited a coach. We committed to doing the hard work. And I’m still amazed at the growth that followed.

What changed?

We learned how to communicate honestly and intentionally.
We rebuilt trust.
We addressed conflict instead of avoiding it.
We developed skills we didn’t even realize were missing.

As clarity increased, so did trust. As trust improved, so did momentum. And as momentum grew, our organizational health—and our results—improved together.

Somewhere along the way, I discovered something unexpected: I love serving as a facilitator who creates space for honest conversations, breakthrough moments, and shared wins. I love designing interactive learning experiences where teams don’t just sit and listen—but actively engage, practice, reflect, and grow together.

I’m Not Here to Reinvent the Wheel

Let me say something clearly: I’m not an author unveiling a brand-new framework. I’m not trying to coin the next big leadership theory. I’m not here to impress you with complicated models or write a new book. What I love to do is help your team accomplish your goals using the tools already available.

Most organizations don’t need another binder on the shelf. They don’t need more buzzwords, frameworks, or another flashy leadership summit. They need a strong team.

There are already excellent tools, strategies, and leadership principles available today. My role as a facilitator is to help you apply them to your people, your culture, your challenges, and your goals.

I’ll say it upfront: I’ve never been someone who thrives in long sessions or heavy theory. I learn best by doing—by jumping in, collaborating with a team, and applying ideas in real time. This interactive learning approach feels especially effective when it comes to team sessions. After all, teamwork isn’t something you grasp from a distance; it’s something you build together.

The Problems Aren’t Unique

For the last dozen years, I’ve lived in one of the most diverse neighborhoods in the world (Queens, NYC) and worked with more than 100 business and non-profit teams across multiple continents and cultures. I’m now about as far removed geographically from those remote Himalayan mountains as one could be. But I’ve realized something important: the stressors I experienced then are not unique.

Across industries and teams, I hear the same struggles:

• “We avoid difficult conversations.”

• “I want to be a more effective leader.”

• “Trust is broken on our team.”

• “We struggle to rally the team.”

• “I don’t understand my leader.”

• “Our team feels stuck.”

• “Our differences are just too big.”

• “I want to equip my team to succeed.”

• “I need leaders.”

Different contexts. Same core challenges.

Workplace development isn’t about fixing broken people. It’s about strengthening communication, skills, and relationships so teams can operate at their best. It’s about improving organizational health so strategy and execution can thrive.

I don’t claim to know everything about teams. But I have seen, again and again, the rewards of doing the hard work. I’ve witnessed the thrill of being part of an empowered, energized, life-giving team.

And So, Team Verve Was Born

Out of these experiences came Team Verve. What is “verve,” you might ask? Verve is life. It’s energy, motivation, and passion. It’s the strength to endure when things get tough. It’s the magic that occurs when individuals truly work together.

We believe verve is the mark of any winning team culture.

A team with verve doesn’t avoid hard conversations—it engages them with respect. A team with verve doesn’t crumble under differences—it learns from them. A team with verve doesn’t pretend and assume —it builds rhythms that sustain both performance and people.

At every Team Verve event, the power of the team is put to work. Through engaging, interactive learning experiences designed to strengthen both performance and organizational health, your team will:

Understand each other better
Practice healthy communication
Learn tools for conflict resolution
Develop real-world team skills
Strengthen collaboration
Expand leadership capacity
Build trust and accountability
Improve overall org health

And yes, we will have a lot of fun doing it. Because team doesn’t have to feel heavy.

Don’t Climb Alone

Standing in the middle of New York City today, I’m a long way from those Himalayan trails where my love for team first began. But the lesson remains the same: none of us were meant to climb alone. We need healthy and strong teams to succeed.

That’s the work I care about, and it’s the work Team Verve exists to support.

Are you ready?

Chat with Matt.

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Matt King, Author at Team Verve